Kids Mental Health: 8 Ways to Improve and Keep Them Positive

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There have regular talks about kids mental health, and here is what you should know as a parent.

As parents, we are responsible for providing our kids with the best care, support, and guidance to help them build successful and happy life. 

One of the things parents can do to support their children’s mental health is to help them stay positive. 

Doing so can help your kids stay healthy, build resilience, and develop the skills they need to cope with their challenges. 

Here are 8 ways to improve your kids’ mental health and keep them positive.

Establish a positive home environment

The home environment is the foundation for everything kids do in their lives; therefore, building a positive and supportive home environment is essential.

If your home has negative or unhealthy energy, it can affect your children’s mental health. 

There are many ways to help build a positive home environment, such as:

Promote open conversation:

One of the best ways to promote positive communication in your home is to engage in open and honest conversation.

Instead of talking to your kids or lecturing them, try to have an encouraging dialogue where everyone feels comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings.

This positive communication can help create a supportive environment where your children feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Create a supportive parenting partnership: 

Another crucial factor in building a positive home environment has a supportive parenting partnership.

This partnership can help you and your partner to manage the demands of raising children, reduce stress, and make sound parenting decisions.

It can also help your children see that you are a team and that they are valued members of the family.

Create a positive family culture: 

Another essential way to build a positive home environment is to create a family culture that is positive, caring, and loving.

A family culture can be as simple as having a family dinner together every day or taking an annual trip together.

Help kids build healthy relationships

Healthy relationships give your children a sense of connection, support, and love.

When they have positive relationships with family, friends, and mentors, they are more likely to have positive mental health.

1. Promote friendships

Friendships are an essential part of a healthy social life and can significantly impact your child’s mental health.

One way to help your kids build friendships is to encourage them to join social or extracurricular activities where they can meet new kids.

2. Teach your children to be empathetic

Empathy is the ability to understand and identify with the feelings of others. An empathetic outlook is linked to a lower risk of developing mental health issues. Helping your kids develop an empathetic perspective can start from a young age.

Encourage your kids to ask questions and learn about others, their cultures, and their backgrounds.

Helping your children understand how other people feel and think will make them more likely to have healthier relationships and develop positive mental health.

3. Set and enforce boundaries for your kids

This is a challenging but important parenting task, as it can help your children develop a healthy sense of self and respect for others.

Setting boundaries can be a tricky task, but there are some ways you can do it effectively.

Establish clear and consistent rules: One of the best ways to set boundaries is to have clear, consistent rules that your children know they have to follow. These rules should be reasonable, respectful of your kids, and designed to keep them safe.

Create a safe space for your children to discuss their feelings: Boundaries are important, but you don’t want to shut your children off and not let them talk about their feelings. Create a safe space for your kids to talk about their feelings if they feel a rule is unfair or if they feel like they’re being treated unfairly.

4. Teach your children healthy communication

Communication is key to healthy relationships, and your children’s mental health is closely linked to their communication skills.

Helping your kids develop healthy communication skills can help them to navigate conflict better and understand other people’s perspectives. 

There are a few ways to help your kids learn healthy communication:

Model positive communication

One of the most important things you can do to help your kids develop healthy communication skills is to model it. Have regular family conversations, and encourage your kids to share their thoughts, feelings, and ideas.

Offer constructive criticism

Avoid criticizing your children at all costs. Criticism is rarely helpful, and it can damage a child’s self-esteem. Instead, offer constructive criticism and help your kids to improve their skills.

Help them develop effective problem-solving skills

Problem-solving is an essential communication skill. Help your children to understand how problem-solving skills work and how to use them effectively.

5. Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness is the ability to stay focused on the present moment and be open to what is happening around you.

This skill can help your children stay in the moment, feel less stressed, and have a lower risk of developing mental health issues. 

Help your children to understand why being mindful is important. Let your kids know that mindfulness can help them to stay focused and avoid distractions.

Start a family meditation practice. This can help your children learn and practice mindfulness.

Help your children find other mindfulness practices, such as yoga, tai chi, or a mindfulness app.

6. Encourage your kids to practice self-care

Self-care is a crucial part of mental health. It allows your children to look after themselves and avoid burning out. 

Help your kids find something that they enjoy and can do regularly. Regular self-care practice can help your children avoid burnout and feel more relaxed.

Discuss the importance of self-care. Let your children know that it is important to take care of themselves, especially when busy with school, friends, and extracurricular activities.

Conclusion

A child’s mental health is crucial to their development and well-being, and there are many ways that parents can help their children stay positive and healthy. 

By establishing a positive home environment, helping your children build relationships, teaching them to be empathetic you can help your children build strong mental health and a positive outlook on life.

 

Author: Charles R. Davenport, Psy. D.

Dr. Charles R. Davenport is a Licensed Psychologist who provides counseling and therapy to individuals of all ages dealing with career stress (https://davenportpsychology.com/tag/career-stress/), depression, anxiety, communication, and relationship problems. His therapeutic approach integrates psychodynamic and interpersonal theories to help patients find change and relief.